Control who can message you.
Filter by:
- Gender
- Age
- Location
- Relationship status
- Minimum message length
Default settings for new users (US, DE, UK) 🌍
- Only members matching your “Looking for” gender can message you
- Only members with an avatar can message you (female users only)
- Only members within ±10 years of your age can message you (female users only)
Two ways to set your filters:
- 📱 Tap Chat → tap three lines (top right) → Who can message me?
- ⚙️ Tap Me → Settings → Message filter
💡 Filters don’t apply to existing contacts — they’ll still be able to message you.