In BDSM, limits are the boundaries of what you’re willing—or not willing—to do. Naming your limits helps partners understand how to play with you safely and consensually.
Types of limits
- Hard limits: Never okay for you. Full stop.
- Soft limits: Maybe, but only with specific conditions, trust, or experience.
How to find your limits
- Run a fantasy check: what do you want to try, and where does it stop?
- Be specific (e.g., caning or whipping is fine—not to the point of breaking the skin).
- Share your limits with partners before play and check in regularly.
Add your limits to your profile so others can see them and play safely with you.
💡 Tip: Consent can change. Review and update your limits anytime.